
Have you felt being in the cloud 9? Too much butterflies inside the stomach they say. And after few months or weeks or days, the person went like poof? To be more specific, the person ghosted you. Ghosting is an act of talking and building connection with a person or group of people in a temporary set up. It is when someone abruptly disconnects himself or herself without any notice. How to avoid people like this? Here are some signs to know if the person is a one that ghost away. Adding some bonus tips in guarding your heart away from this kind of people.
From “Kumain ka na ba to K” messages
It is innate to every human to be thoughtful and remind their love ones in taking care of themselves. One of the most popular lines in doing this is “Kumain Ka Na Ba?”. A lot of people claims that those who often uses this kind of line are most likely to ghost you. To be sincerer and to avoid being coded as a ghost person, try saying or reminding the person you love to “Don’t forget to eat and please don’t starve yourself” instead.
Too Fast and Too aggressive
Some people who are too aggressive and too fast in expressing their feelings are more likely to quit immediately or ghost somebody. Believe it or not, most of the inspiring stories were crafted in a process where the couple take everything slowly but surely.
The “We’re enjoying each other naman di ba? Let’s stay like this” people
People who boldly states this kind of statement are those who either fears commitment or has no plan to commit at all. Sounds familiar? You might want to assess if the person you’re dating is like this or maybe it is you who uses this kind of term. Don’t waste your time and effort for nothing.
The above signs are just three from a long queue list of people who ghost away in a relationship. In order to avoid this or even help yourself becoming not one of them, here are some tips. First, ask yourself “Am I brave enough to commit in a long term relationship?”. Second, be completely healed from your past to avoid ghosting someone and hurting them. And lastly, do not be too “marupok”. Know your worth dear.